A friend loves at all times…. The one who has knowledge uses words with restraint, and whoever has understanding is even-tempered.
Proverbs 17:17, 27, NIV

It’s not always easy being with other Christians. Yes, we’re brothers and sisters in Christ, and the Bible stresses love and unity among children of God. But some Christians simply rub us the wrong way. They can hurt us, and we can disagree with them.

Sometimes the problem is our own impatience, intolerance, stubbornness, and pride. Remember, in any church there are people with varying levels of maturity. Some are new believers, and some who have begun attending may not yet know Christ at all. All this can cause misunderstandings among us. Remember, too, that it’s hard to know what’s going on in the life of another. Sometimes we’re the object of misplaced anger. Someone who snaps at you might be struggling with overwhelming problems that have created frustration in the soul.

The Bible gives timeless advice: “If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone” (Romans 12:18, NIV). What can you do to be more even-tempered in your relationships?

Friendship is an irreplaceable gift in the life of a Christian. Through the hurts we experience, God exposes, changes, and sanctifies us.
Kelly Needham